Understanding Pressure & Ways to Release It


A Brief Look at Pressure World Wide

                Both stress and pressure, often used synonymously, are no stranger to any of us.  Simply being born into this world is a stressful event.  Going through the motions of life can involve a lot of pressure.  If things are going well, we feel pressure to sustain that state of being.  If things aren’t going well, we feel pressure to get things in order.  In other words, no matter what your current status in life, this is something that can affect you and it is completely universal.

                But does it differ from country to country (our causes of pressure)?  As it turns out, they don't differ, not by much.  According to Sleep Review: The Sleep Journal for Sleep Specialist, money is actually the number one cause for pressure as reported by 29% of 27,000 consumers, in Argentina, Australia, Belgium, Brazil, Canada, China, Czech Republic, France, Germany, Hong Kong, Italy, Japan, Mexico, Netherlands, Poland, Russia, South Korea, Spain, Sweden, Turkey, UK and USA.  Sleep deprivation is the close second.  And of course different countries, counties, or demographics have varying concerns about violent crime rates and political unrest. 

                And then individually we all experience different bouts of existential pressure.  We want to live up to an ideal or a potential that either we invented or bought into from the advertising we are bombarded by.  It isn’t surprising then, that money is a concern world-wide since money buys us power.  The road to our dreams is partially paved by money, only escapable if perhaps your dream is to be a monk and meditate on the finer gains in life. 


Use Your Stress as a Tool

                There is a health psychologist known by the name of Kelly McGonigal, who has made it her mission to change the narrative on what stress can do to the body.  She’s given a Ted talk about “making stress your friend”.  She cited a study that tracked 30,000 adults in the United States for 8 years.  They began by asking people how much stress they had experienced in the last year, and then they’d ask them what their beliefs on stress were (whether or not they believed it was harmful for their health).  And then finally, they used public health records to figure out who died.  Those who believed stress was harmful to their health had a 43% increase in mortality risk, whereas those who believed it wouldn't hurt them actually had the lowest risk of dying out of anyone in the study.  She also pointed to research that claimed participants in a stress test performed better when they believed that their stress would be an effective tool to help them with the challenge.

                So in other words, one way to deal with pressure is to try and gain some optimism.  Learn to be unthreatened about your stress, especially if it is a normal response to an event.  Dealing with customers is stressful.  Dealing with relationships can be stressful.  Sometimes driving is stressful.  But it is normal to have a stress response, and it is your body doing you a favor.  The trick is to understand the stress response as the body’s way of prepping, and to appreciate its mechanisms.  


If You Can’t Channel It, Release It

                Sometimes pressure can come out of nowhere and be unnecessary or is self induced.  While, no, it’s not going to kill you, you might wish to release it to get rid of the uncomfortable feelings it can present.  Proven methods of releasing stress are the still the ones we most often hear about, exercise, sex, laughter, or time with loved ones.

                Exercise is great because it gets you high, literally.  For a long time, endorphins were believed to be the home-brewed opiates responsible for the feeling of runner’s high, since elevated levels were observed in the bloodstream after intensive jogs.  What they didn’t consider back then is that it is a rather large molecule that doesn’t cross the blood brain barrier.  So, as it turns out, it was not the one responsible for that peaceful state of mind.  What gives a person runner’s high then, you may be wondering?  Almost too coincidentally, it’s the same stuff that can actually get you high.  A 2003 study published in the Journal of Neuroreport, took male college students running on a treadmill or cycling a stationary bike for 50 minutes, and found the first evidence that exercise activates the endocannabinoid system.  Isn’t that neat?  You make your own cannabinoids without ever going near a cannabis plant.  So if you want to experience one of the best natural highs nature has to offer, just go and get some exercise.

                Another helpful aid, laughter, might be beneficial for the same reasons that exercise is.  It is thought that true belly laughs can actually activate a lot of muscles in the body.  A Dr. Fry claims, “In fact, between 100 and 200 laughs a day is equivalent to ten minutes of rowing or jogging.”  Laughter is thought to do all sorts of things like activate pain relief within the body as well as make one more socially inclined or feel less lonely.  Watching a comedy show or spending time with a friend who makes you giggle a lot can be the perfect way to blow off steam.

                Spending the day doing a hike or being out in the open air of nature can be a fantastic relief to pressure as well.  Sometimes nature humbles us, and thus shrinks our problems, allowing us to put things in perspective.  Getting a bigger intake of oxygen can also aid our bodies in carrying out its primary functions.  Deep breathing makes us calmer partly because it increases our intake of oxygen. So don’t break out that Xanax just yet; try the aforementioned methods that aren’t habit-forming, at least not in a maladaptive manner, first.


In Conclusion--It’s Actually Not Rocket Science


                The good news is how simple this is.  You are not alone in feeling pressure.  It is absolutely a world wide experience.  It won’t kill you if you don’t believe it will.  It can help you and be your friend in moving you towards your potential.  And if you don’t want it around anyway, there’s a handful of ways to release it or get rid of it via doing things that we all can enjoy, such as hiking,  laughing, or socializing with good company.

                

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